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Speak out Stay safe

Speak out Stay safe is a safeguarding programme that aims to equip a generation of children with the knowledge they need to stay safe from abuse and neglect.

It provides resources for primary schools, home educators and practitioners in alternative provisions to help children aged 5 to 11 years understand:

  • abuse in all its forms and how to recognise the signs of abuse
  • that abuse is never a child’s fault and they have the right to be safe
  • where to get help and the sources of help available to them, including Childline.

Primary schools

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Who is this for

The Speak out Stay safe: primary schools resources are for delivery to children aged 5 to 11 years in the UK and Channel Islands.

If you are supporting children in another country, please visit Child Helpline International.

What is provided

Everything schools need to deliver Speak out Stay safe is provided including:

  • virtual assemblies for children aged 5 to 7 and 7 to 11 in English, Welsh and British Sign Language (BSL)
  • follow-on lesson plans with engaging activities and resources to help reinforce and embed key messages in English and Welsh
  • face-to-face workshops for children aged 6 to 7 and 9 to 11 (talk to us about availability in your area).

What we cover

What happens in the assembly

The Speak out Stay safe assembly for children aged 5 to 7 years is 20 minutes long and covers the topics set out below.

About Buddy

We introduce Buddy and talk about how Buddy is a speech bubble because we believe children should speak out if they have any worries.

Children's rights

The assembly explains that all children have the right to speak out and have their views taken seriously, be kept safe and get help when they need it.

Sam's story

We tell a story about Sam. The story demonstrates the importance of speaking out about any worries a child may have.

Forms of hurt

We explain the different forms of hurt in a simple age-appropriate way so children understand when something is not right.

Speaking out

Children think about safe adults who may be good to talk to, both in school and out of school.

Childline

Children learn about Childline, and how they can get in contact if they're worried or need to talk.

What happens in the assembly

The Speak out Stay safe assembly for children aged 7 to 11 year is 30 minutes long and covers the topics set out below.

Sack of worries

We talk about the types of worries a child might have. We use bricks to represent worries and put them in the sack. We then use the sack of worries to talk about safe adults a child could talk to. With each example, a brick is removed.

Definitions of abuse

We explain the different types of abuse in a simple, age-appropriate way, so children understand when something is not right.

Speaking out

Children think about safe adults who may be good to talk to, both in school and out of school.

Childline

Children learn about Childline, and how they can get in contact if they're worried or need to talk.

Ali's story

We tell a story about Ali. This demonstrates the importance of speaking out about any worries a child may have.

Children's rights

The assembly explains that all children have the right to speak out and have their views taken seriously, be kept safe and get help when they need it. 

Additional support

You'll be supported by a local Schools Co-ordinator who can answer any questions and help you access other support, resources and training.

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Special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) and additional needs (ASN/ALN)

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Who is this for

Speak out Stay safe: SEND/ASN/ALN is for schools in the UK and Channel Islands working with children who have special educational needs and disabilities (SEND), additional support needs (ASN) and additional learning needs (ALN).

The materials are intended for children:

  • who have moderate learning disabilities, autism spectrum conditions or other additional learning needs
  • aged 9 to 11 but can be used with older pupils at teachers' discretion.

If you work with d/Deaf children, Speak out Stay safe: primary schools is available in British Sign Language (BSL).

If you are supporting children in another country, please visit Child Helpline International.

What is provided

Everything schools need to deliver Speak out Stay safe is provided including:

  • session plans
  • slides
  • films
  • printable resources and props.

The materials are available in English and Welsh.

What the sessions cover

The six sessions create a positive environment by using the friendly character of Buddy, the idea of a safe circle and clear ground rules.

They use stories about four child characters to present some of the sensitive issues around abuse in a way that's appropriate and helps pupils' understanding.

Additional support

You'll be supported by a local Schools Co-ordinator who can answer any questions and help you access other support, resources and training.

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Alternative provisions

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Who is this for

Speak out Stay safe: alternative provisions is for practitioners working with children aged 5 to 11 years in settings in the UK and Channel Islands including:

  • pupil referral units (PRU)
  • education otherwise than at school (EOTAS) or education otherwise than in a school (EOTIS)
  • online and virtual schools
  • local education authority or social care practitioners who undertake individual or group work with children.

If you are supporting children in another country, please visit Child Helpline International.

What is provided

Everything you need to deliver Speak out Stay safe is provided including:

  • a practitioner's toolkit to support your role in delivering the programme
  • engaging, interactive and flexible resources
  • films to accompany the toolkit and demonstrate the activities.

The resources can be adapted for individuals, groups or whole classes.

What the sessions cover

The sessions cover the types of abuse (neglect, physical abuse, sexual abuse and emotional abuse) in an age-appropriate way.

There are hands-on activities and discussions to empower children to speak out and to understand that they matter (children’s rights).

Additional support

Your local Schools Co-ordinator can answer any questions you have about the programme and help you access support, resources and training.

Sign up for Speak out Stay safe: alternative provisions

Home education

Who is this for

Speak out Stay safe: home education is for anyone who is home educating children aged 5 to 11 years in the UK and Channel Islands.

If you are supporting children in another country, please visit Child Helpline International.

What is provided

The home education pack is full of engaging and age-appropriate activities, resources and videos.

Delivery of the sessions is easy and straightforward, using day-to-day items you can find in the home.

What the sessions cover

The sessions cover topics such as conversation starters, feelings, worries, safe adults, safety, online safety and children’s rights.

They are designed for home educators to share important safeguarding messages with children.

Access the resources

English

> Download the home education pack (PDF) in English

> Watch the film introducing the home education pack in English (YouTube)

> Watch the feelings film in English (YouTube)

> Watch the sack of worries film in English (YouTube)

Welsh

> Download the home education pack (PDF) in Welsh

> Watch the film introducing the home education pack with Welsh subtitles (YouTube)

> Watch the feelings film with Welsh subtitles (YouTube)

> Watch the sack of worries film with Welsh subtitles (YouTube)

Additional support

If you become aware of safeguarding concerns or if a child talks about abuse during the Speak out Stay safe programme you can get advice and support from the NSPCC Helpline.

Our child protection specialists are here to talk through your concerns with you, give you expert advice and take action to protect the child as appropriate.

You can contact the NSPCC Helpline by calling 0808 800 5000 or emailing help@NSPCC.org.uk.

> Find out more about the Helpline on the NSPCC website

Testimonials

From schools

"Given the sensitive nature of the topic of abuse the virtual assembly managed it thoughtfully, purposefully and in a way that children could understand and relate to. It was at a primary level, yet the meaning was not lost. Such was the presentation of it, no child would have gone away traumatised by what they heard, which is obviously the most crucial factor. Well done NSPCC for taking an exceedingly difficult subject and bringing it down to a child's level."

Richard Ewart, Strandtown Primary School

From children

"I liked Buddy and still remember the number you taught us. It's nice knowing that Childline is always here for me if I ever need them."

Girl, age 11

"It was really good to hear about Childline and to know that I can talk to you about anything. I have been getting bullied at school so I have been feeling quite sad. Knowing that Childline is always here for children really helps."

Boy, age 11

From parents and carers

"My daughter thought the volunteers were fantastic, really real people, very warm and friendly."

Sally, Prestatyn

Evidence and evaluation

Evidence base for Speak out Stay safe

Facing stressful life experiences at a young age can have a long-term impact on a child’s wellbeing, with effects lasting into adulthood (Public Health Wales, 2016). It’s vital that adults know how to spot the signs that a child is being abused and provide appropriate support, but we also need to help children speak out about anything that’s making them uncomfortable. This will help make sure the abuse ends sooner and children can access the right support to help them get back on track.

However research tells us it can take children years to tell someone about experiencing abuse and neglect, if they disclose at all (Allnock and Miller, 2013).

One of the reasons for this is that children lack knowledge and understanding about abuse and neglect. Many children do not recognise their experiences as abusive (McElearney et al, 2011), or do not have the language to disclose the abuse (Alaggia et al, 2017).

School-based education programmes about specific forms of abuse have been found to improve children’s knowledge and understanding up to six months later (Fellmeth et al, 2013; Walsh et al, 2015). Research has also identified increased rates of disclosures about sexual abuse and bullying following school-based education programmes (Finkelhor et al, 2014; Walsh et al, 2015).

Evaluation of Speak out Stay safe

We commissioned an independent evaluation to examine the impact the Speak out Stay Safe programme has on children's understanding of abuse and harm and their help-seeking behaviour.

The research confirmed that there is a need for the programme, that it has multiple benefits for children, and that children and school staff viewed it as important and relevant.

> Read the final report

References

Alaggia, R., Collin-Vézina, D. and Lateef, R (2017) Facilitators and barriers to child sexual abuse (CSA) disclosures: a research update (2000–2016). Trauma, violence and abuse, 20 (2): 1-24.

Allnock, D. and Miller, P (2013) No one noticed, no one heard: a study of disclosures of childhood abuse. London: NSPCC.

Fellmeth, G. L. T. et al (2013) Educational and skills-based interventions for preventing relationship and dating violence in adolescents and young adults. Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews. (6).

Finkelhor, D. et al (2014) Youth exposure to violence prevention programs in a national sample. Child Abuse and Neglect, 38 (4): 677-686.

McElearney, A. et al (2011) Keeping safe: establishing the need to teach “keeping safe” messages in primary schools in Northern Ireland: what do children currently know and understand? London: NSPCC.

Public Health Wales (2016) Adverse Childhood Experiences and their impact on health-harming behaviours in the Welsh adult population: alcohol use, drug use, violence, sexual behaviour, incarceration, smoking and poor diet (PDF). Cardiff: Public Health Wales.

Walsh, K. et al (2015) School-based education programmes for the prevention of child sexual abuse. Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews. (4).

Support us

We believe it's important that our Speak out Stay safe programme is available to every primary school aged child at no cost.

As a charity we can only do this thanks to our many generous supporters and amazing volunteers.

Volunteer with us

Play a vital role in helping children understand abuse and giving them the confidence to speak out if they need help by becoming an NSPCC Schools Service volunteer.

> Find out more about volunteering opportunities in schools on our Volunteer Hub

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